How to Ask the Same Girl Out After a Break Up especially for the Teens for a making up relationship?

Published: 15th October 2008
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After a breakup, you may still like the girl. This is meant to help you get going out again.


Don't expect that she still likes you, no matter what. Even though it may make you sad, remember that if she doesn't like you after the breakup, you won't get hurt again (unless you go out and break up again). This way, if she does like you, it will come as a surprise when you find out. Don't let her see it surprises you though.

Try to stay friends with her, even though this may be awkward. If you were friends before you went out, try to get back to that stage. Support her in her decisions and hard times, more than you did as just as a friend but maybe just a little less than you did when you went out. This will show that you still care about her. Worry and hurt with her.

Ask to talk to her alone. Don't let her know why, let her wonder. Don't talk about this over the phone, through text messaging, or over the internet. It has to be direct, face-to-face communication. Do something while you talk. Walk up and down a hallway or anything. Make sure that you are alone, so that it is quiet and easy to hear her.

Establish basic things, and move to the finish. Say something like, "I'm sure you know that I still like you (even if you know this isn't true), and that I had a great time going out. I was wondering if we could go out again sometime. If you'd like, we could completely restart, or we could continue where we left off. What do you think? Will you give me another chance?" You could also add things like "I know I messed up the first time we went out," or "I'm really sorry for what I did."

Think before you start talking. If you went out, you should know at least a little of how she thinks. Prepare for her to give you questions back or to talk about the reason you broke up. If it was your fault, make sure she knows how sorry you are.

Remember that if you start going out again, make sure you try to avoid ending up in the situation you did last time. Try not to remind her in any way about it, because she may get to thinking about it and worry again.


During the talk, you could stop walking right before you start the questions and turn to her, take her hands in yours, and look her right in the eyes. Whether you stop or not, look at her while you ask.

Make sure that after you break up, you don't start blaming her or her friends. Accept any responsibility and don't yell at her friends. You don't want them mad at you right before you ask the girl out again because girl's friends have powerful influences over the girl's choices.

Don't make it obvious what the talk will be about. Indeed, life is short. Don't let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a move today. It can change or affect the rest of your life, therefore, at the very least, you can try to come out something for your ex love partner during your weekend plans. With a little practice, perseverance and patience, I believe that your relationship could be enhanced with the tips that I have shared earlier. If you have faced any problems with your loved ones, do not hesitate to visit this piece of article again.

I really have a strong belief that if you can understand what I have explained and applied what you have learnt from this piece of article, your problems can be eventually solved and your making up relationship can become more stable and stronger. I wish all the best for your making up relationship with your partner. Do always remember to spread word of mouth to your fellow friends for supporting the decision of having making up than breaking up.

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