How being broken apart can actually bring both of you together for a making up relationship?

Published: 15th October 2008
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Having broken up with your ex love partner is not a joyous, positive and happy occasion. I will like to share with you that I have also faced a broken up relationship before. My feeling is really torturing, confusing, hurting and extremely uncomfortable. I almost have the second thought of ending or closing my life for losing my love one who has already been dating with another boyfriend without my notice. Therefore, when I have witnessed this break up that has happened on me, I have already learned myself to control myself and not turning desperate or showing any "begging" to my love.

However, if you have ever experienced a breakup by yourself with your ex lover, you will know how difficult, tough or hard it can be to pick up the pieces of your life back up. The chances are that you really want your ex lover back but you really do not know how to achieve this task. There are a few simple things that you can do in order to win your ex lover's heart back.

The first and simplest thing that you can do is to break off any contact with your ex lover. Although it seems like this would be the last thing that you can do, it is always a point of the reverse psychology by us. You have made someone to miss you and you need to be gone for you to miss. Do not be out of the contact for too long because there is a month that will suffice.

Do not ever expect your dear ex boyfriend to dash back towards you just because you happen to be out of the picture and out of contact. Oddly enough, it is just a starting block that probably settles many things at only once. If you really want to win your ex lover's heart back, try to stay away for a small little amount of time which does you feel good when you are ready to begin to get a relationship with him again. It can help the five other ways too.

They are time apart so the things that could be said in the strong heated arguments do not really get said. Emotions have risen high right after the break ups and you are just apart and out of one another's face. These will let all those emotions to simmer down. Well, you can get a level head again once you feel that you are doing for yourself. I believe that your ex will have to deal with many things on their own as well. Anyway, if you have been together for some time, this can hurt far worse than all of you know.

On the contrary, they can not realise that if you happen to be still there helping them willingly by taking care of their issues. You can always experience the life as a single person. Sometimes, during this time, you may find that you are happier without him or her by your side. Therefore, what you can do is simply devise a working plan schedule that can allow you to win back your ex lover's heart. You can try to get it back without a plan, or you are most likely to fail.

Also, if you prefer or choose to go with the 'no contact' rule provided, you really need to stick by it which may be hard for not calling him or her when you have the good news especially if this was the person you have shared that kind of news with. Furthermore, you have to always remember that there are no phone calling, no text messaging, no e-mails and no visiting or hanging around his or her home, working place or place of hanging out. It would be wise and steady for you to stay away or keep out from parties you know they may be at. Also, if you work together as a team or are attending class together, perhaps you may act like you do not know each other and have never spoken before.

Well, once that month is already up and you have a plan in place, perhaps you can consider to put the plan in place and start trying to win your ex lover's heart back. Sometimes, if you do not have such a plan in place before the months are up, then you may not really want your ex lover back. Actually, why would anyone of you want to get them back without a plan only to lose them again a shorter period of time?

Indeed, life is short. Don't let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a move today. It can change or affect the rest of your life, therefore, at the very least, you can try to come out something for your ex love partner during your weekend plans. With a little practice, perseverance and patience, I believe that your relationship could be enhanced with the tips that I have shared earlier. If you have faced any problems with your loved ones, do not hesitate to visit this piece of article again. I really have a strong belief that if you can understand what I have explained and applied what you have learnt from this piece of article, your problems can be eventually solved and your making up relationship can become more stable and stronger. I wish all the best for your making up relationship with your partner. Do always remember to spread word of mouth to your fellow friends for supporting the decision of having making up than breaking up.

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